A Center For Grieving Children, Teens and their Families.
OUR STORY
The death of a loved one often leaves families feeling overwhelmed, not only with their grief, but also with the day-to-day activities in their lives. Struggling with their own feelings of grief, it is often difficult for the surviving parent to help their child cope with death, leaving the child to face their feelings of loss and pain alone.
At Common Ground, we provide open-ended peer support groups for children ages 6-18 as well as a young adult support group for ages 19-30 for those who have experienced the death of a parent, sibling, or primary caretaker. We know that a safe, caring environment along with being in the presence of other children who have experienced similar losses helps them to feel less alone in their grief and more understood. This, in turn, fosters the healing process.
WHO WE ARE
Common Ground's Mission
The mission of Common Ground is to provide support in a safe place where children, teens, young adults and their families grieving a death can come together and share their experiences as they begin the journey through the grief process.
NEWS & EVENTS
Don't Miss Our Annual Clambake Benefit
Join us at the beach this summer for fun, food, and festivities at our annual Common Ground Clam Bake Benefit at Martell’s Tike Bar in Point Pleasant on Thursday, June 17th, 2027.
Stay tuned for more details.
RECOMMENDED READING
Life On Pause
Through personal anecdotes and professional expertise, Lynn Snyder shares how children process loss and how visual expression helps them navigate their grief journey. This book serves as both a guide and a source of comfort, providing practical tools and understanding to those who want to offer meaningful support. With the wisdom of young voices at its core, it is a testament to the resilience of grieving children and the transformative power of creative expression.
Resources
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What Is Grief?
Grief is a natural response to the death of someone important. Children and teens may experience grief through emotions, physical reactions, behaviors, relationships and changes in everyday routines.
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Supporting The Grieving Child
Children need honest information, patient listening and reliable support after a death. While every child grieves differently, caring adults can help them feel safe, included and understood.
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Supporting the Grieving Teen
Teen grief can be difficult to recognize. Adolescents may hide their feelings, rely heavily on friends, seek privacy or struggle to balance grief with school, relationships and growing independence.
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Talking to Kids About Tragic Events
News of violence, disasters and other tragedies can leave children feeling frightened, confused or vulnerable. Honest, age-appropriate conversations can help them understand what happened and know that trusted adults are available to support them.
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Talking With Children About Suicide and Violent Death
Explaining a death by suicide, homicide or violence can feel overwhelming. Clear and truthful language helps children understand what happened, ask questions and maintain trust in the adults caring for them.
Any individual, corporation, foundation or community organization that invests financially in supporting Common Ground Grief Center is in essence, directly supporting the emotional well-being (both present and future) of every grieving child and teenager that we serve. Children, teens and their family members walk through our doors “broken-hearted.” I know this because I sit across from each and every one of them for an initial orientation before they begin one of our support groups. What I see happen months (or more often, years) later, is a transformation of and adjustment to a “new normal” that is sprinkled with hope. What we give families is love, compassionate listening, a sense of community, and a place where they can be with others who truly “get it” in a non-judgmental safe place. This, is the cornerstone of healing. We are also investing in the emotional health of the children and teens so they can grow into well-adjusted adults. We know that the death of a parent is a monumental adverse childhood experience and that if emotions are left unattended, they can lead to depression, anxiety, behavioral issues and substance use issues into adulthood. So what we provide at Common Ground, in addition to the aforementioned, is the hope of preventing these issues.
All this cannot be accomplished without the financial support of the very community who literally helps to keep our doors open. You see, we have no means of income other than those who believe in and invest in our mission. Those who invest in the mission are investing in the training of new volunteers (we are a mostly volunteer-led organization), art supplies to help children express their big emotions, special projects that assist with helping kids and teens never forget the memory of their person, and the leadership it takes to run such an organization.
The power of connection for those hurting is profound. We love what we do and are honored and humbled to witness healing in the face of insurmountable pain.
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Lynn Snyder, LPC, ATR-BC, FT
Founding Director